Alternative Lifestyle Test
Scoring Methodology
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Each question has five possible responses, ranked from 1 (Traditional/Reserved) to 5 (Fluid/Alternative/Exhibitionist). Your total score across sections determines your primary lifestyle orientation category.
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Total Score 10-20 → Monogamous Explorer (ME)
Total Score 21-30 → Open Relationship (ORP)
Total Score 31-40 → Swinger Lifestyle (SL)
Total Score 41-50 → Polyamorous (P)
Total Score 51-60 → BDSM & Kink-Oriented (K)
Total Score 61-70 → Exhibitionist/Voyeur (EV)
Total Score 71+ → Hybrid & Intersectional Lifestyle (HIL)
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Score Category-Specifics​​
Exhibitionist/Voyeur
An individual who gains excitement from either being watched or watching others engage in intimate experiences.
Swinger
A lifestyle where partners engage in consensual play with others, ranging from soft swap (non-penetrative experiences) to full swap (intimate exchanges).
Hybrid & Intersectional
A fluid exploration that blends multiple lifestyle elements, embracing non-traditional relationships, kink, sensuality, and self-expression without rigid labels.
Polyamorous
A relationship structure where individuals engage in multiple romantic or intimate connections with full transparency and ethical communication.
BDSM & Kink-Oriented
A lifestyle where partners engage in consensual play with others, ranging from soft swap (non-penetrative experiences) to full swap (intimate exchanges).
Monogamous Explorer
A monogamous individual who is curious about lifestyle exploration within the boundaries of their primary relationship.
Open Relating
A couple or individual who allows intimate connections outside their primary partnership while maintaining emotional security and agreed-upon boundaries.
